Bring back the excitement!

A common complaint amongst husbands and wives is that there is no excitement in the marriae anymore. In short it is quite possible that your marriage and sex life has fallen into a rut and in all probability it is you who kicked the marriage into the rut.



Come on - don't look at me like that. A marriage is a union between 2 mostly adult people and what happens in that marriage is controlled entirely by the 2 partners. If things are going wrong it is the fault of either one or mostly both of the partners.

If your marriage is no longer exciting it is because you have allowed the excitement to escape or have failed to create new excitement.

Ladies, when last did you receive a gift from your husband? A little deeper, was the gift beautifully wrapped or was it just in a plain paper bag or even worse did you have to go buy the gift yourself?



When you receive a gift, often the care that is placed in the presentation of the gift means just as much as the gift itself. This is a fact that women treasure but men often do not realise. Those small extra's such as a nice pink bow, a good choice of wrapping paper etc, can double the value of the gift to your partner.

Ladies, in the bedroom, you are presenting your body to your husband as a gift! When last did you giftwrap yourself for your husband!


What you wear in the bedroom is part of the giftwrapping and creates the excitement. What is more likely to get your husband aroused, your old ragged nightie or a beautiful babydoll as shown to the left.

Remember that your body is the gift and beautiful lingerie will make the gift to him so much more exciting and appreciated. It signals that you have taken extra care in the gift and makes it so much more appreciated by him.

It is time for you to once again take hold of the excitement in your marriage and to create your own excitement.

However, don't wait to arrive in the bedroom to start your plans for the evening. Remember when you were dating how you would plan out the whole evening in advance - how you would plan that magical moment when he or she would eventualy take you in thei arms.

Marriage is no different. Text your husband during the day and remind him not to be late home that night as you have something special planned. Cook a great meal that he enjoys and lay the evening out.

Husbands - send your wife a text message telling her not to cook. Come home and take her out to a restuarant. Don't forget some nice flowers or some chocolate as well.

Whatever you do create excitement in your marriage - No-one else can do it for you except yourself!

Not Enough Sex

In my previous posts I highlighted the importance of maintaining a regular and healthy sex life between you and your spouse in order to prevent satan from getting a gap and causing havoc in your marriage.

Yesterday I came across some shocking statistics that only serve to further prove the fact that satan is active and intent on destroying marriages through destroying the sexual relations between husband and wife.

1) Relate, a top couples counselling orginisation, released figures that showed that the amount of men who do not want sex with their wives has increased by 40% over the last 10 years.

2) A quarter of women over the age of 35 do not have sex.

The hugely interesting fact that emerged from the discussions about these figures above is the reasons that male and females list as to why they are no longer having sex. Some of the more common problems are:-

a) Weight Gain. They simply do not find their partner visually attractive enough to want to have sex with them. Come on Guys and Girls, your body is the temple of God and you need to maintain it so that it remains attractive to your spouse. If you are really battling with your weight then I highly recommend that you enlist yourself into the most incredible weight loss program called Weight Loss God's Way by Dr Frank Smoot.

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b) Pornography. Many described how it was just so much easier and hassle free to get onto the internet and get the satisfaction from porn. Porn is so freely available online and does not require any other commitment.

Sex between husband and wife should be the highlight of your relationship. It is not somthing to withhold or use as a treat or punishment. Many cases where sex is withheld as a form of punishment have backfired and resulted in the other party finding what they need online instead.

Guard your relationship and ensure that what happens in the bedroom is far more exciting than what is available online. You have the added advantage of smell and taste in real sex, which the internet can never provide, so the total sensory feeling of real sex is far better than that of online sex.

c) Broken Relations. Too many comments were about how the wife or husband had changed since they got married and how they were no longer interested in each other.

The best advice that I can ever give to someone who's partner is falling out of love with them is simply "Why did you change?" Your partner found you highly attractive at one stage and fell in love with you. What did you change to make them fall out of love with you?

d) Natural low libido in some men. Some comments indicated that some of the men had simply lost their libido. Now while this is quite normal, it is not acceptable. There are many natural products and foods available that will boost your libido by as much as 200% so that you can get your sex life revved up again.

I have had some argue that they are not prepared to spend money on a small matter like that. Well what is cheaper, the product or the divorce. In my opinion, the product solves your problem and helps to prevent a divorce. If you do not want to spend on the product and end up in a divorce, you still have your old problem as well. Get the product to help save your marriage.

Whatever the cause of your dwindling sex life is, find it and deal with it. You can not afford to let your marriage be destroyed by the works of satan. Invest in some quality time with your partner so that your relationship will be strengthened through a healthy sex life.

Is Sex a Dirty Word.

How do you view sex in your marriage?

Is sex a crucial part of your marriage that bonds you together?

Or is sex just something that you used to have in order to have children together?

Sex is one of the most important parts of any marriage, no matter how old or how young you are. Sex is meant to be enjoyable for both partners and should never be just an obligation. If it has become an obligation that you perform merely to keep your partner satisfied, then you have a problem. If sex has become anything less than at least a once a week affair (which is still way too little) then the chances are that your marriage is at risk.

Satan comes to rob and to steal - it is his whole function in life. He wants to steal your joy, happiness and mostly your unity in marriage. Satan hates unity for in unity there is untold strength. "When two or more are gathered in My name, whatsoever they ask shall be done for them."

One of Satans major weapons is that of lust. Nothing is able to break a relationship more than an extramarital affair. Now please don't give me that nonsense that your partner would never stray or wonder. Have you forgotten that Satan is so powerful and deceiving that when he was cast out of the heavens he managed to convince one third of the angels to go with him. Those Angels knew the full glory and power of God for they were in God's prescence daily, and yet satan still managed to decieve them into being cast into outer darkness and eternity in hell. How much easier is it for satan to deceive you or your spouse. How many great men and women of God have fallen to Satans deception already?

When you and your spouse are not actively engaged in healthy and active sex, Satan is standing ready trying to deceive you into temptation.

Why are you not active in your sex life?

Some of the most common reasons for not being sexually active anymore are :-
1) Sex is boring.
2) Too Busy.
3) Age and impotence.
4) Lack Libido.
5) Sex is Dirty and it is a sin to be Lustful to each other.

None of the above is an excuse to abstain from sex, but rather each one of these excuses is an opportunity for the devil to destroy your marriage.

If sex is boring for you or your partner, it is because you have never taken the time to experiment and find out what really turns your partner on. Sex is fun. Communicate with your partner about what is best for them and work to ensure that sex becomes fulfilling and exciting part of your marriage. Sex is only boring if there is no adventure and fulfillment.

Too Busy for sex. You are in the exact place that satan wants you to be. When you are too busy for sex, it is so easy for him to come in and destroy. God wants you to have time to yourself and for your partner as well. When you are spending all your time seeing to the needs of others (Great Thing)but no time to see to your own needs, something is going to break and that could well be your marriage. If you are not seeing to your spouses needs, then who is?

Age and impotence. Age has absolutely no right to interfere with your sex life or to determine how sexually active you remain. Remember Sarah and Abraham. Well God could not have granted them a child at such a late age if they were not having sex. If impotence is a problem, most cases of impotence are easily resolved. Impotence is a tender issue with men so if you do not wish to seek medical advice, there are many places that you can get help online. Overcome Impotence

Lack libido. The most common problem that affects libido is that of lack of correct nutrition. While a healthy diet is all that most need to get them on the correct route, there are many herbs and natural products that can boost your libido. Increase Male Libido. Improve Female libido.

Sex is dirty. Satan loves to take that which is holy and make it dirty. Sex is not dirty, it is merely satan that has perverted it to the world. Sex between husband and wife is the most fulfilling and complete of all acts of love and it is in sex that we have total unity with each other. An active sex life strengthens a marriage and in order to keep your marriage as strong as God intends it to be you need to have constant unity through sex, with your partner. The more adventurous and enjoyable the sex the better.

By the way, it is not a sin to enjoy sex, but rather a sin to deny yourself the pleasure that God has granted to you through the act of sex with your spouse.

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Senior Sex - Does Age Have The Right to Affect Your Sex Life.

Age generally affects your sex life detrimentally due to a number of factors but when we really look at the main issue of age and sex, what right does age have to prevent you from enjoying regular and fulfilling sex.

Statistics have indicated that 60% of men above the age of 50 years are currently experiencing erectile problems which prohibit them from leading a fulfilling senior sex life. In the USA there are over 30 million men that are suffering from impotence. These figures are climbing daily .

Your senior years are regarded as being the golden years of your life. Where is that gold if you are hindered form one of the great joys of life - sex. Sex should get better with age and great senior sex should be one of the daily or at least weekly highlights of the golden years. Marriages improve with good solid sex for bonding and a marriage in it’s maturity should really involve the best sexual escapades ever.

If we were to return to olden days and refer to the scriptures, we will find that Sarah became pregnant at the age of 90. Abraham was 99 years old at that stage. Now we all know that it was a miracle of God and that can sometimes hide some of the truth from us. Sarah was way beyond her child bearing years and so falling pregnant was a miracle. However, for the miracle to happen, Abraham and Sarah had to be enjoying regular sex. Faith without works is dead!

Times have changed and possibly the main difference between your sexual health and that of Abraham is one of diet related issues. Our modern day diets are full of non nutritious foods that are chemical laden. As a result your body does not receive the full nutrition that is necessary to maintain adequate blood circulation and healthy penile function.

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Lack of Sex

When your life gets busy and as you age, you may find that sex often tends to take a back seat. Simply put you become too tired for sex.

When sex between man and wife starts to decline, it is possible for Satan to start to get into the little gap in your life, where intimacy should be, and start to play games with your marriage. Needless to say this can be the start of disaster as one of Satans favourites is to split the unity between man and wife.

It is of utmost importance that you continue through your marriage with a healthy sex life and mostly when your libido starts to decline, it is not so much due to natural aging, but rather due to the unhealthy lifestyle that we lead. We should be able to enjoy healthy sex right up to a good old age. Remember Abraham and Sarah.

When your libido starts to lack, it is time for you to start doing something about it. You need to get healthy and bring the unity back into your life. Exercise is good and will help to get things back. Eat the correct foods so as to be healthy. Reduce cholesterol levels in men a this blocks penile blood flow.

Enlist the help of supplements that will boost your libido. There is nothing wrong with taking a natural supplement that will get your libido back into gear. In fact you are simply using something that God has already provided for you, but which for some reason is not included in your normal diet. I do not find the use of natural products or natural methods to improve your sex life to be wrong.

For women, Provestra is an incredible mix of natural herbs that will stimulate your hormones and return some of the desire that has been lost.

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The important thing is that you need to reclaim your sex life and the unity and bonding between man and wife. Do not let Satan get a gap.

Keeping sexy and healthy.

When it comes to marriage, many people have the tendency to simply let themselves go after the marriage, or to simply allow yourself to slide. Christian marriages are possibly more affected than others due to some people realising that the partner can not look elsewhere and if they do they will not only have to deal with you, but with God as well.

The second major problem is that while it is good to be involved in lots of activities, you some times find that your energy is depleted and so sadly the bedroom activities start to fall away form your marriage.

While it is totally true that we marry and love our partner for better or for worse, it does help when it comes to bedtime activity if the partner is the same as when we married them, or even a little better. If your partner looks good and you look and feel good yourself you will be more likely to get and enjoy more sex.

One of the biggest problems as we age is that we tend to gain a little bit of fat. Now that in itself is not a problem, but often the weight gain is as a result of a slowing metabolism. Your metabolism is the rate at which your body burns energy. When your metabolism slows down your body burns off calories at a slow rate resulting in a loss of energy.

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With your metabolism running faster, you will find that you are more alert mentally, and that you suddenly start to feel better about yourself and to be happy. The increase in energy sends a bolt through you that seems to jolt all your senses back in order, resulting in emotions like happiness and feeling great about yourself coming back to you.

Now about that extra energy that you have. It can be a problem because you do need to use up some of that new found energy. Honey, can you meet me in the bedroom quickly."

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